Alternative Career Options in 2017

Alternative Career Options in 2017 might not be as challenging as you may think.

 

Alternative Career Options was on my mind soon after I realised that the corp world was not the place where I wanted to spend the rest of my working years.

 

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When a few years ago, after a long period of time being stay-at-home mummy, I got a job within a corporation, I expected great intellectual challenges. But I quickly found myself working long hours on boring and pointless routines. After a few years of executing really dull and meaningless tasks, I stopped hoping that I’d move on to more interesting career within the company. I understood that only keeping my head down, to execute the work they assign and staying low-key was all that was expected of me. Very soon my hopes and dreams were shuttered, when I understood no thriving career is being laying around to claim, nor significant reward, nor such pay rise one could consider remaining to slave any longer.

 

I throw a few tantrums, had a good whines and moans, but I could somehow not get to terms with even though everybody else seem to be reconciled. But deep down I knew I was not going to be a part of the herd.

Confiding to my colleagues was a bad idea. Persisting on using some brains, I was politely told off that the office might not be the place for me. Some of my colleagues started avoiding me, I represented threat for them now.

I was soon be invited to very “huhu” intimidating meeting with my boss and often with the HR agent too, to show and prove me what a terrible person I was having a negative influence on my colleagues. As my colleagues could have an idea now and could also start using their brains and that wasn’t why we were recruited all in the first place.

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So if you still want to slave 9-5, sorry, the 9-6 is more like, in the same company, you need to forget you are a human being. No emotions, no personal input. Or you have a choice to leave and join similar corporation and this time give it all you have. In other words, you have learnt your lesson, so behave now!

 

Or not?

Or you can start your own business. No boss, no silly tasks, no dull assignments, no intimidating meeting rooms, no HR, no mindless colleagues trying to put you down.

What about living on your terms and starting doing what you really enjoy and

makes you feel happy and fulfilled?

 

I am Stanislava Hale, The Freedom Laptop Lifestyle Entrepreneur, and I wouldn’t be it without the help of my freedom entrepreneur mentors and without following their business modules.

And you could be too if you decide on Alternative Career Options and turn your hobby into your work, if you decide you never want to work a day and prefer to hustle 24/7 to slaving the 9-6.

 

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Claim The Right To Your Own Happiness

What could be possibly more important than your own happiness?

 

It is very easy to say “do more of what you love, less of what you tolerate and none of what you hate”. But what to do if you have to go to work that you hate or to be in unloved relationship? Well, the thing is you don’t have to. You need to claim the right to your own happiness. It is your lawful right!!!

Happiness is a mental or emotional state of well-being. But how to achieve it?

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Many people hate their job, I mean really feel even physically sick if they think of Monday morning and the return to their work spaces.

I was one of them. I used to be so stressed on the Sunday afternoons already followed by sleepless nights, I would always start the working week tired as hell. Tired and sick. Coming to work where I had to face the mass of people, trying to avoid those that I disliked was almost impossible in open space and limited places to go to lunch to and not meeting them at the same time. Simply not the ideal place to be and all day. I like my own space and although I am extrovert, I have often and long introvert tendencies periods. And such “existence” wasn’t in balance with my idea of work and happiness. I realised I could never be successful and fulfilled in a place where I don’t belong to.

Here I started questioning my own choices. Why do I allow it to come to such point where I jeopardise your own health? How going to work I hate could possibly be more important than my well-being and why don’t I attempt finding other options and a job that I would enjoy it, where I could be useful and it would have a meaning and a positive impact on my life? I was probably driven by wrong convictions that I had to do this job until my kids grow up to provide the means for them. But while chasing the means for them I forgot to look after myself, like my time and my happiness didn’t matter. Till one day I woke up and said to myself that this has to stop. That there must be something better and more meaningful and that I do have the right to be happy, I just have to claim my happiness.

It was time to count my blessings, pick up what was left and change

and tell myself go and

Claim the right to your own happiness!

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And that’s where my the idea of starting my own business was born.

Helping others. I love helping others. Helping others become happy and seeing other people happy and fulfilled tends to make me happy. But there is a difference between that and valuing other people’s happiness more than my own. I had to create a good balance. I knew I couldn’t help others if I wasn’t happy myself. It was more than being in a positive mood. Happiness is a state of well-being that encompasses living a good life, that is, with a sense of meaning and deep satisfaction. Research shows that happiness is not the result of bouncing from one joy to the next. Achieving happiness typically involves times of considerable discomfort. And my it was time to give my discomfort a time out.

 

I will do anything in the world to provide for myself and my children. Being a single mum and not having anyone to help me or support me taught me to be very self-reliant. But it also taught me that my own happiness is very important for my children’s well-being and their personal development. It taught me that I matter, my business matters and what I am creating today, my kids will mirror it tomorrow. They need to understand the values and real happiness in life. And that’s my job to show them. I need to claim the right to my own happiness so that tomorrow they know how to claim the right to theirs.

What about you? When are you going to claim the right to your own happiness?

Stanislava

the FREEDOM LAPTOP LIFESTYLE entrepreneur

 

Essential Entrepreneurial Skills

To become a successful entrepreneur you need to possess or acquire essential entrepreneurial skills.

Most people live their lives they think they have to live. They feel bored, unfulfilled, stressed, overworked and stuck in a system that exploits them rather than helping them achieve their goals. They get the education the job society says they should want, but unfortunately, most lack the right skills required to be self-reliant and successful. They lack essential entrepreneurial skills if they ever want to start a business of their own. And they lack basic tools to grow their business later and make a success.

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Self motivation and confidence is the first key. Coming up with a great idea that would sell and create a plan around it. It is an idea that sells. And ideas are priceless.

Knowing your money story. Get your financial literacy right, your financial mindset right.

Being happy with what have is not the right attitude. You need to be grateful for it, but not happy if you know you can make progress and more money.

Knowing and engaging with your audience, answer their questions, find out what they need and follow up with that.

Mix up or combine your strategies, update yourself with every latest technology. Learn new skills every day.

Remember that personal referrals and trust are the most important. People buy from whom they trust.

Communication and syndication. Intelligent advertising is crucial. Where? Everywhere you can. Social medias are at your disposal, take advantage of free or low budget advertising campaigns if you can’t afford else.

And mainly:

Keep moving, keep working, keep learning, keep striving, never give up, fall down seven times, get up eight, if you can do 30, you can do 31!

Without commitment you’ll never start, without consistency you will never finish.

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Being an entrepreneur is being a leader, being your own boss and accountable for the whole project. Threaten your ease with continuous progress.

The only way to win is to train, read and learn, learn to listen. An entrepreneur must learn more, learn something new every day. Things are changing, the world is changing. Unless you are ripe and you are about to fall off a tree, but nobody is going to want you anymore.

You have to learn every single day like your life depends on it!

An entrepreneur knows he will fall many times but who’s counting? Learn to fail and fail again. But fail forward, come back stronger.

To way to success is to be consistent, persistent and have total control.

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The vision of the SFM and DEA is to wake up millions of people to realize the tremendous potential that lies within themselves. And further, to show them how to harness and exploit this potential in the new, digital economy. In doing so, they will transition from reliance on their current job or occupation to a life of FREEDOM, self-reliance, and total control. They will do good in the world by creating wealth and abundance not only for themselves, but also for their communities and those around them.

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What You Sow is What You Reap

From an apple seed you will never grow a kiwi.

 

What you give is what you get, what you sow is what you reap.

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Today I’ve spoken with a friend of mine, a young lady with university degree, fluent in two foreign languages and so unhappy at work that her health started to crumble.

I asked her: “Why, why don’t you change it, try something different?” And her answer was, the same answer as of almost all of my corporal friends: “it is not so bad, I get some home office”. Hm.

She are willing to sacrifice her youth and kill off her ambitions just for some days of home office and pretty stable, not guaranteed, wage and job. She carries on with life as it didn’t matter what job she does, as long as she “goes to work” like any sheep. Complaining day after day that her work sucks, it is boring and unfulfilling. And she doesn’t like nor the job, nor the people she work with. No wonder, if majority of them aren’t happy, what vibes in such environments can be? What energy flows in such places?

But pretending everything is quite ok.

“I am not stressed that much”, is the answer. The translation of it is I am stressed out, but too comfortable to do something about it. Too scared to leave it, so I stay.

These people don’t look at themselves in the mirror. At their sad faces that are fading and lacking tenacity. They do notice though their health starts suffering, but are putting it down to a normality. As if everybody is doing so, it is ok for them to do it too. Of course it is “ok”.

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But was it meant to be just ok? Was it meant to be kind of average, when you ware a kid with huge dreams? Did you dream only about survival or did you have big dreams? And when you applied for university courses, when you started planning your career? Did you do it just to get any job? Or did you want to have an amazing life and fantastic lifestyle built on your amazing skills and experiences? Have a happy, fulfilling life and be a success?

So why is it ok to settle only for an average, for an Ok-ish now?

What you sow is what you reap, and what are you sowing?

Stanislava

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Entrepreneurial Business Opportunity

Best entrepreneurial business opportunity in 2017, in my opinion.

Have you thought of becoming an entrepreneur and having a business of your own?

For any reason, one maybe because you are tired of “going to work”, of tired of your boring job, maybe feeling unfulfilled or just need a change. You need to liberate yourself and start afresh with a new idea and start building your own business rather than working on somebody else’s.

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By having a business of your own you can start experiencing a different lifestyle. Being a boss to yourself will give you freedom over decisions, earnings, place of work and time.

 

But, before you start, you need to count with a list of things:

What is your goal? If you have a clear vision, the possibilities will unfold

Why is is that you want to become an entrepreneur?

What advantages are there for you?

What disadvantages do you need to count with?

What’s your budget? low, high, but you need to write it all down at the beginning, expected and unexpected.

- Timing.. How much time can you dedicate for preparations daily now, for when do you want to be ready and how much time do you want to dedicate once it’s rolling?

What education and skills you need to acquire? Where to find good mentors and good business platforms?

Who to team up with, as alone you will get there eventually, but having a team of mentors will accelerate the process.

Is your mindset ready? Are you ready to take upon the challenge and commitment?

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Being your own boss comes with huge responsibility. No place for procrastination, no place for second thoughts, laziness, distractions or “I’ll do it tomorrow”s.

Staying laser focused on your final goal every moment throughout the process is extremely crucial, as you will experience many setbacks and go through many hurdles. No need to lie that is a fast and easy money or get rich quick scheme. It is not. And only some will endure and become successful.

The journey to FREEDOM is never smooth. It can be and will be emotionally and financially draining. Therefore before you set off, having the right mindset and preparing your mind for all the challenges and how to overcome any fears, is necessary.

 

In fact, MINDSET should probably be the number one on the list. As one thing is being interested in entrepreneurial business world, another is to be really convinced and committed to achieving your goals with every single cell of your body and mind.
You have thought, you might have an idea, even very creative one, now you need some business platform with smart tools and help to start realising it, making it real and start your journey on to becoming an entrepreneur.

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Why don’t you try THE SIX FIGURE MENTORS? The Digital Academy that is more than just an academy. Their business modules, platform and a team of mentors, including various workshops, training and mindful live meditations with in-house entrepreneurs, could be all you need for your start. All housed under one roof. Is it what I chose at my beginning and later became their affiliate too and chose from their different affiliate programs, as an addition to my existing business.

 

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Best Startup Online Business

How and where can you find the best startup online business

when there are so many educational opportunities for creating an online business to choose from?

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You probably have many questions running through your mind when you hear about it. Before I started my online adventure, and it was an adventure at the beginning, although with a business goal, but with no previous experience, I’d heard a lot of talk about how easy it is to make lots of money online. My questions were:

  • If it is so easy, how come everyone isn’t doing it?

  • What’s the line that separates success from disappointment? Real success from illusion and empty promises?

  • Where is the best place to start once I see an avalanche of overwhelming  information with training courses?

I’ve always dreamed of a life on my own terms where I can work the hours I choose and make money from anywhere in the world. But I didn’t know how to, realistically, get the ball rolling to break free.

Until one day I came across the Six Figure Mentors (SFM) and Digital Experts Academy (DEA) founders Jay and Stuart. These two young tenacious men have proved themselves by creating several multi million dollar digital businesses from scratch having a vision on precise business goal.

And their goal and driving passion is now empowering individuals with the confidence that comes from having the right know-how. Now they teach millions of people like myself how to create a lifestyle by your own design, on your own terms.

They also created a refreshing and friendly community of like-minded people from all over the globe who are happy to lend a hand or share how they overcame challenges. Here you’ll find a culture of individuals giving each other a leg up instead of the mercenary attitude you typically find in the competitive business world.

Now let me invite to watch a presentation recorded live in New York where Stuart explains the specific critical steps to create an online business; the knowledge needed to put these steps into effective motion; and an overview of the money producing actions that deliver results.

Free 30-Day access to a wealth of insights and training materials so you can experience for yourself.

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It is not just about the money.

It’s about the lifestyle of earning more, working less and enjoying life.

Stanislava

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Something is Wrong With Me, I Have Symptoms

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I open up my computer in the morning, check my facebook, my business page, my emails, see how my adverts are doing, see what interesting I will see today from my carefully selected list of people and groups that regularly post on social medias inspirational stuff. How I love my quiet mornings after the kids leave the house to go to schools. Coffee is brewing and I can start choosing what to study today, what is my main motto of the day and how can I contribute to this world from what I am learning today, and every day. In total peace with my cat sleeping next to my chair.

But not long ago it wasn’t like this.

My mornings were the busiest and most stressful parts of the day, the mornings were where I used to burn all my energy up and carried on auto-pilot for the rest of the day.

Getting up early, often after sleepless nights still full of adrenaline or unrelieved stress from the day before. Rushing through the morning rituals, making sure that everybody is ready and on time, dropping my youngest daughter to school on the way to work.

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By the 9am I used to be done for the day where the second round of “punches” would only arrive. First in the form of emails. Opening up my work pc and I could guarantee you I never found a pleasant email. Like how are you? Are we gonna have a lunch together or thanks for the work you have done yesterday, well done. Or thanks for managing so much yesterday despite your busy schedule, or I don’t know what else, anything of this sort would have been quite nice.

 

But no, when I was opening my pc, I knew that a shot of some strong tranquillisant by hand, would be just what I needed. I knew I would find some “pretty” email whether freshly posted from my superiors desk just before I arrived, or from the night before, to make sure I am supplied with the adrenalin for the whole following day. And I was. They knew how to keep my blood pressure high enough.

 

Whether that was their hobby or just a natural self, a result of difficult sad childhood, lack of love received from their mothers or being bullied themselves, only God knows now. But certainly they had a need to demean you and would look for any, and I mean any, opportunity or excuse to prove you totally incompetent. Whatever you did could not possibly be good enough, whatever you didn’t do was good enough to highlight it and make it into national crimi story. And things like your two days off for next month approved?? Forget it, suddenly you are too indispensable. Simply not approved yet. It needs a special committee to take place to decide.

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I really started questioning my sanity instead of their vanity. I thought, maybe there’s something wrong with me, maybe my mental coordination isn’t at its best, maybe previous experiences confused my head and mixed the priorities upside down, so I am unable to recognise what’s important anymore. Maybe it was not giving a forced compliment and fake smile to my last entering office team leader with a home baked cake with her coffee to have, let alone distinguish between right and left. Then looking around at my colleagues, which most of them looked like they were about to be admitted to a psychiatric unit or had just left one, after a long treatment, confirmed my suspicion.  IT WAS ME.

 

Well. It came to the point I admitted such environment is ill for me and unproductive. No, senseless really. My true self was never aligned with the character and nature of such work, nor with the people in it, especially the leadership. To me they seemed only like dogs barking at anyone behind the gates. But pretty much asslicks when the gates were open and authority stepped in.

Yes, so nice to be at home now and have the FREEDOM. Freedom of choice, freedom of place and time. I often sit in such silence when I am working on my own stuff, I can almost feel my heartbeat. But not in my throat, but the regular sound of it. I kiss my kids goodbye when they leave for schools and welcome them back home when they return. What a luxury. When I meet my friends now it is to have a nice evening, not just to get drunk and have a good slag off after a day doing “everything wrong”.

Everything has its time and I enjoy my work on my own terms, being my own boss, my manager, my coordinator and my labourer. I decide on my time schedule and only I get to decide what I do today.

And I am going to cook a nice meal for my ♥kids♥ again and spoil them rotten :-)

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Feeling Vulnerable is not Being Negative

I am not being negative, I’m only vulnerable and have a need to express and release my negative feelings.

Are you going to be my friend?

 

I have a tendency to keep it all in. I tend to look strong and wise, not necessarily intelligent, just generally experienced. And that’s what and why people expect from me always. Or at least what I think they do.

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Certain discussions are best to keep for a certain audience.

I work on my self-development and mindfulness, but most of my friends don’t. I had to reduce the time I spend with them now as I noticed lately we grow apart, we have less in common. I still love them dearly, but I don’t have a need to seek their company regularly, or as often as I used to do.

 

You become an average of the 5 people you mostly hang around with.

 And that is the reason why I carefully pick who to spend my time with. Gossiping about our colleagues or girl-friends is not my cup of tea. Yes, maybe to get updated on who is getting married or having a baby, but as for the rest, it is of my little interest, or none really.

Trying to stay positive and selective of the words and thoughts is very hard at first. It is all about habits, the paradigms. It took me a while to break some of them and learn how to replace them with useful ones. And still after years, I am only learning and practicing it every day. That’s why I feel some or many of my friends, if frequently in their company, would pull me back, to my comfortable zone, just like my brain likes it. But I don’t like it anymore.

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I work hard on my self-development and I don’t feel like I need to please some people or make them like me. And this is not about feeling superior, it is about knowing yourself and knowing what you want to achieve in life and not accepting compromises. I understood that most of the people would only try to talk you out of your dreams, because they gave up on theirs. And only because they chose to remain in their comfort zone, they wanna pull you to it too. Having a nice personality and a good heart is not enough if you want to make it big, but a hard everyday work, not just talk.

 

Many people will tell you, after a good observation, that you have changed. And frankly, yes. That was your objective. You mastermind to change, to better yourself, to grow and mature and continue in doing so. So yes, you have changed. But only to better version of yourself. Unfortunately, some will feel intimidated by  your change. They’d like you better as you were…. Maybe a bit ignorant, maybe a bit naive, simply easier to see through you. But you put up a lot of work to better yourself that others were not willing to do.

Nevertheless, it doesn’t mean your personality has changed. You are still the same person with the same values and qualities. Only, this time, modified and improved.

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It also doesn’t mean you don’t feel like a good whinge or moan. Ok, it won’t take over your whole day now as you learn and practice how to control your emotions in order so they don’t control you. “Give me 5 minutes to be vulnerable” you  plead… “Let me let it all out”, in a good old fashion way, if it works. Sometimes it still does. I wanna whine , I wanna shout, I wanna be a nuisance, just like a dog when his fur get wet and needs to shake it off not caring who is near and will get splashed. And then he carries on, as if nothing happened. Except that you choose who to be vulnerable with.

 

And then you take control again after a storm passes and tell yourself: “Oh, what the hell, I am only a human on my own marvelous journey.” Like me or leave me. But if you stay and I am vulnerable again, I will appreciate you understand my moment of weakness without judgement. Because… I trust you, my friend. I trust you and love you.

Stanislava

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Want Your Own Business

You Want Your Own Business But You Can’t Afford It?

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It is something I hear from my friends or colleagues tired of corporation world over and over.

While it is true that someone with nice capital or an investor can start a company easier, not having money is NO EXCUSE. All it takes is to be ready to step out from your comfort zone and take responsibility for yourself.

If you have a great business idea and you are confident that you have a product or service that people want, don’t allow the lack of capital to deter you from your business goals. Once you set your mind on achieving it, it is your obligation to your own self to fulfill it.

If You Can’t Win the Game, Change the Rules

Here are 5 simple steps that could help you to achieve your business goals:

  • Find a way to generate a cash flow to finance your product.

Prepare a plan to fund your business idea and start taking first actions. If you have to take another job for a while, do it. It will pay off.

  • Be service and value orientated.

Build trust. First you need to provide a good service with a great value, than you can expect to collect reward.

  • Be creative and resourceful.

Look for the resources and inspiration everywhere. Get feedback and suggestions. Simply, let your fantasy do its job.

  • Take advantage of latest tools.

Remember, working smart is not necessarily working hard. Do your research on how to make your life easier with applying latest tools to achieve your goals in shortest time possible, with lesser effort. It might need some prior investment.

  • Stay laser sharp focused and committed.

If the people around you are giving you advice to slow down or to take it easy, you are surrounded by the wrong people. Temporary defeat is not a permanent failure. Rejections and setbacks are part of the game. Enjoy the whole journey and celebrate every success. But mainly, sustain the pace and endure.

your temporary defeat is not your permanent failure

I wish you every success with starting your own online business with no excuses.

If I could do it, you can do it too and even better.

Now relax and enjoy your own journey towards FREEDOM.

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Stanislava

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TODAY IS A GOOD DAY

Today is a good day. To start over again.

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You wake up in the morning and in that moment of nothingness before you take up the momentum of the day, you know you need to change vibration and the frequency, or you’ll carry the frequency from the day before. But today is another day and you are hopeful to make it better. You are done with something that isn’t working anymore. You know you need a change.

Today and everyday is a good day indeed to start afresh, all over.

 

This shouldn’t have been so hard. But it is. It was. So what am I going to do about it?

 

That’s how I felt that morning. This isn’t working and I am not going to fight it anymore. I went to work but only to walk into our HR department where I handed my resignation. My job didn’t feel right probably right from the beginning, but now I was definitely done with, done with trying to prove my worth, done with not being appreciated, with disrespect, pretense and denial.

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In the morning, before you get up and start thinking about all the things you have to do today that you don’t like, before you start remembering injustices of yesterdays or 10 years ago, before you think of going to a place to work that you don’t want to be, before your kids get up, before all the challenges… there’s this short moment of quiet, moment of peace and bliss when you can express your gratitude and dreams. I decided to acknowledge and follow it, it even if there’s only a trail of it after a stressful day. To open the flood gates for the good vibrations to enter before the usual daily madness starts again. It is a good moment to reset and align with good vibrations, in which I’d like to stay for as long as I can.

I felt stuck for long enough even though I knew it wasn’t possible to be stuck if everything is in constant motion. Everything keeps recreating but to me it kept recreating into the same thing over and over so I was receiving the same result over and over, obviously.

Everything keeps changing, everything must change. I realised that if I don’t focus on something that is pleasing I will be forever surrounded by things that are not pleasing. You get what you give, and I was giving the same. So I was receiving… the same.

 

But I knew I could do it, I just couldn’t do it all at once. That’s fine. Let’s take one step at the time. Let’s pick up one thing that feels good and try to sustain the good feeling for as long as I could. Although you can’t barricade yourself to a solitude in order to sustain it all day, by doing this exercise all I could do was at least to extend the feeling. To practice it as I recognised I was in denied depression. It was an accumulation of bad feelings that I kept tolerating and avoided dealing with, not letting them out to demonstrate and feel them. I was mad now. I was mad with myself for letting it happen. But that was better than denying depression. Being angry is good, it means something started moving in the direction of frustration. And in frustrations you find hope. Having hope you reach for a belief. And when you believe you start knowing. Knowing is remembering who you are. But you can’t guide yourself using somebody else’s criteria. Your criteria is what you feel.

The stronger you feel the more on the path you are who you are.

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GOOD FEELS GOOD. And that’s what I was going to remind myself of and more often. I was meant to be a free and joyful being, so by giving myself a little dose of it every day, was to remind myself of it. Your emotions are your guarding system to let you know how you are doing on the way to what you have been saying that you want. Just like your navigation system in your car. You set your destination, the name of place you want to be and the voice will start navigating you. If you take a wrong turn, it will remind you of it. Just like our feelings, they will start demonstrate accordingly and our job is to feel them.

That morning I took a legal U-turn. And it felt right, it felt good and liberating. I felt like in a cage before, in a job that didn’t feel good and fulfilling so now I was going to taste my freedom in full sips by doing something I like and useful. No more dreaming about it only, not more talking about it only and wishing that maybe just maybe one day. Today was that day. Today is a good day. Today and everyday is a great day to change something indeed. so I did. So I do. And it feels so good.

And if you want to feel good, today is the day. Take that first step and start living the life you always wanted. Check the link provided where my mentors will show you how to start by tuning into different frequencies so you can hear different ‘music’ and feel different emotions. It’s never too late.

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